Before you read any of this post, please take this (possibly overly) simplistic quiz and find out in which generation you fit according to your beliefs, not age. My score was 70, making me a pretty solid Millennial; what's yours?
Last week one of the lectures in one of my textbooks covered the topic of Generation Y (Millennials). It was actually really interesting and I learned all sorts of things (which is one of the joys of being an ESL teacher- I get to study and teach science, history, culture, economics, sociology, etc, and language). For instance, the average Millennial spends at least $30 at the mall every time s/he visits (which is often). They're very close to their families and usually get along pretty well with their parents; they value time with family and success in marriage far more than success in their career. They are less white than any generation before. They love to have fun. They consider themselves to be pretty tolerant of everything from interracial relationships to religion to sexual orientation. They're well educated, especially the girls. Anyway, you can read the full, and very long, report from the Pew Research Center here.
So I had my students take the quiz--most of them scored somewhere in the Millennial range of 60-80 with a few around 95 (not surprisingly, those are the students whose phones I'm constantly collecting for texting during class) and a few with the scores of Baby Boomers--and then we spent some time in class discussing what it meant to be a Millennial and the differences between us and previous generations. They were extremely enthusiastic during our discussion, possibly because it meant they got to talk about themselves more, but they brought up some good points.
Most of them said that the one thing they felt was most unique about them compared to their parents' generation was the use of technology. One student agreed that Millennials like to have fun but was concerned that it meant that Millennials are lazy. He's not, he assured me (which is true), but maybe Millennials enjoy leisure so much to the point of making it detrimental to society. I think he's on to something. Millennials are lacking the work ethic that abounded during the time of the Baby Boomers. It may be better that we're not raising another generation of workaholics, but worrisome that we might be lazy entitled piles.
I was surprised that several of my non-Muslim students (from mostly Catholic countries) thought it was ok to date someone of another religion, but definitely not marry that person. I think most young Americans are fine with interracial/religious dating and marriage, and I actually think it's beneficial for society to mix and mingle...which is another thing that makes me a Millennial, I suppose.
Anyway. I was wondering what you thought. Regardless of whether or not you are one, what do you think is good/bad about Millennials?
One more thing. As I was reading up on Gen X and Y and Baby Boomers, I kept wondering how we all turned out the way we did. What was it in the way our parents taught us or what teachers said at school or what we saw on Sesame Street that helped form our belief system? I was a little offended that I too, fit fairly nicely into a category along with everyone else. I hate that the little voice in my head that shouts "But I'm different!" is wrong.
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This makes me think of a conversation I was having with some other moms after reading a parenting article. It had talked about how praising too much can hurt kids' motivation, and that they may lose the ability to work just for work's sake (feelings of accomplishment?). Anyway, with the high-praise, "self-esteem" movement in parenting when millenials were growing up, maybe careers are less important because they don't hand out sufficient praise (i.e. their parents set the praise bar too high), and work is less important because it isn't intrinsically valuable to generation Y.
My score was 54. I'm not as solidly Millennial as you! Heh, heh, heh.
I also think that interracial dating and marriage is fine. It's surprising that so many of your non-Muslin students felt like interracial marriage is not a good idea. I don't personally know too many people who feel that way - at least among my friends. (Older generations might feel differently.)
But you ARE different!! :) (I think that's a millennial thing - I do it to)
I was a weak Millennial (47), but I think a lot of our choices are already determined by the fact that TV and newspapers are not in English and we are required to have a landline. Stuff like that. Woa- Max just took it and scored a 20! It said he was a baby boomer. What an old man.
In Morocco it's not as big of a deal for a Man to date a woman of another faith and he could even marry her. (Would she have to convert? I don't know. BUT, unlike Judaism where Judaism is "transferred" through he mother, it's the father in Islam. The kids can still be Muslims with a Christian mother, for example.) But it is totally unacceptable for Muslim women to date a non-Muslim. Interesting.
ANYWAY, I always think of my younger brothers as millennial, but not me. Maybe we are cuspers. Is that a thing?
I love the question about WHY we got this way. What generational trends have influenced people in such a consistant and far reaching way? When you find the book that answers that question, let me know :)
Also, it's ok to cry. I cried at the court shoot out scene in the new Bond movie. Why? I could not tell you. Courage! Destruction! Whatever. It's fine.
Fautie says:
Interesting. I scored 39. I am a supposed boomer but this site says I am not a boomer and gives a new classification to those between boomers and Xers which I may be:
http://www.generationjones.com/
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